Dear Mark,
You were one of the kindest, selfless and loving people I could have ever wished for. You taught me how to be calm and how to control my autism which helped me when my mum and dad got a divorce. Your death has truly taken a piece of my heart that can never be repaired.
"There's a Starman waiting in the sky. He'd like to come and meet us, but he thinks he'd blow our minds". - David Bowie, 1972.
Mark was one of my first customers when I moved "up North". He was so grumpy when I met him I thought that was it, but he became a great customer and I like to think friend - he even offered me a job when I needed help... think of you often mate - you are one of a kind
Only just found out today really shocked what a nice guy I am sorry to his family RIP
Merry Christmas mark RIP
I have known you for 25 years.
You are unique, and you will be missed
Chris
You are the best uncle and brother that myself an Flynn could have ever asked for. A piece of me has died with you. I love you more than you ever realised. I look like you , I came to you for advice, you taught me how to try and look at things rationally, and if that didn’t work, you told me just to do whatever I wanted and stuff everyone else. You taught me to be brave. You taught Flynn how to chop wood (to your own detriment) and how to set fires. He loved his Uncle more than any words that I have in my vocabulary can describe. He will be lost without you.
You were my rock and was always there no matter what pickle I got myself into.
My heart is broken and my life will never be the same.
Sleep soundly Big Brother
Love you always
Marie and Flynn
Xxxx
My candle burns at both ends, it will not last the night;
But ah my foes and oh, my friends- it gives a lovely light.
Heartbroken to hear of Mark's passing. He was one of natures gentlemen, loved his family and would do a good turn for anyone. Lost for words. We thought highly of you Mark and your beautiful family. Sorry we couldn't be there, we heard whilst in Cypress. God rest your soul our lovely friend. xxxxx
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Shocked and gutted at this tragic news. Mark was my former boss and friend. Always there to help, even when in one of his moods! Hope he's at peace. I'll always have fond memories of him. Sleep tight pal x
You will be sorely missed Mark - you were loved by so many people and it leaves a huge hole that you are not here.
For the 20 years we’ve been friends, I can’t think of many other people who would manage to be grumpy; funny, angry and then inspiring all in one call or pint - in the way you always did!
I would write down some of your classic lines here, but we all know most can’t be printed... so I’ll just recite them as i raise a drink to you pal.
I’m sure when we meet again it’s your round - be at peace my friend, I miss you.
Mark Kayley. I will never understand everyone's sudden loss. I loved you as a boss and as a comedian.
Mr Grumpy at times but always there should you need help.
A very good provider for his family, materially and had so much love for his children. Chief Cook and bottle washer and extremely astute businessman at work.
You have left a massive void in so many people's lives.
LOVED BY SO MANY, MANY PEOPLE.
I so wish you were able to have read the many comments of love before you fell asleep then maybe you would still be here.
See you soon Mark.
Much love
Alice
xxx
I just wish I could hug you Mark and tell you all is well, I’ve had some fun times and some sad family times with you pal, you will and always will be special to me and your beautiful family, I just wish you had never left us because we all miss you x love always Mark xxx
Mark and I got to know each other and became friends over the past 20 years as a customer of my companies Vision Link and Pro-Vision. Straight talking, honest, ethical, approachable and friendly he was always in my eyes a role model for others in the industry that we both worked in. It was a pleasure to know him and a privilege to be his friend.
Much love to you all .Words are not enough xxx
No words can express our thoughts about the sad loss of Mark, he was down to earth, funny and generous. Marks calling card was leaving Alans Chocolate wine on the front door step,.
always asking about Rae and her netball,
Mark organised a Helecoptor trip and I was panicking which he thought was funny, he said it was the safest Helecoptor you could ride in.
Mark was Alans “go to man”
Mark will be sadly missed by all of us.
Our sincere thoughts are with you all at this very sad time, if you need us we are here for you as Mark was here for us x
From falling asleep and snoring throughout Shrek 1 and 2 with my dad to our attempted underage break in at Bend It Like Beckham, driving extra fast down the bumpy lane to swim school, supervising our after ice skating teas at the Holden Arms, numerous family adventures, finally getting me to abandon my stabilisers at Oasis age 10 and most importantly, giving me four amazing best friends for life and Auntie Ju, you had a massive impact on my life (the stabilisers was a big one) and I’m so lucky to have you as my Uncle Marky. I’m really going to miss hearing you let yourself in (we still think you had a key) and popping round for a catch up/a small portion of whatever mum was cooking at Carol’s cafe; you always had the best stories to raise a chuckle. You have the biggest heart out of anyone I’ve ever met and would stop at nothing for the ones you loved; we were all so very lucky to have you in our lives. Thank you for being such an amazing friend to my dad over the years too; there’s a big Marky shaped hole in a lot of hearts right now and there always will be. As always, we’re thinking of you all. Sleep tight Uncle Marky xx
A former boss of 5 years and a family friend but I’ve got so much to thank Mark for. My dad managed to get me a job working for Tech Sol when I was 17.
At 20 year old when my Dad passed away suddenly, Mark went above and beyond to help me in & out of work.
I honestly can’t state enough how much he helped me through the toughest time in my life and I’ll always be greatful for the things he did for me not as a boss but as a person. Speaks volumes of his personality and its helped massively with the choices I’ve made in my life going forward.
As a family we are all so greatful, Scott, Jeanette & Emma.
Rest in piece Mark
Mark was everything you could want in a friend and so much more - whenever we met up he left me smiling, laughing or thinking. His family meant everything, yet he was so generous with help and advice to all whose life he touched. Our thoughts are with Julie & kids, his mum & dad and all who were close. Thinking of the happy times. Love from Danny, Lisa, Jack & Holly xx
I’ve known you all my life. A quiet stable presence, unwavering and loyal.
From the times you used to babysit Marie and I (not too many as we drove you mad) to going to speak to my mum as you knew I was wagging college. ( I didn’t speak to you for a while after that) but thank you for doing that. You did it because you cared
I’ve watched you and Julie bring up four amazing children who are a credit to you both.
Tickets for concerts, family parties and the wonderful Christmas Day that you give everyone. You only ever had to ask you and you got what ever you needed.
Just this year with a car for Den and I when we were stuck. I will think of you every time I look and use that car.
A wonderful,generous, kind, and amazing man. Will miss you
Rest in peace Mark xx
Sarah
so much more than just a boss, mark at times was like a 2nd father. in times of need he was the man to turn to.
Gone But Never Forgoton
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Mark was funny, kind, generous and genuine. The first time we met was on a stag trip to Dublin ... I'm still convinced that Mark was the one that hid my boarding card, ... he always denied it with that "who me!" smile. He was kind enough to sort football tickets for my son, invite us to posh charity evenings and I always enjoyed his company hugely.
My thoughts are with Julie, family and close friends. I can only begin to imagine the pain and sadness felt by all those people who were lucky enough to know him better than I did. Love to all, Dave and Jan xx
Mark, i echo all of the thoughts, feelings and condolences of anybody that has had the privalege of working for you. I spent 8 happy years at technology solutions, made a lot of freinds that i speak to often, made a lot of brews for you, more so since i left!. I'll always remember you for your kindness, loyalty to your lads, your humour and your no nonsense approach. I learnt a lot from you, and you deeply missed. Thoughts and well wishes to Julie and the family xx RIP son, sleep peacefully xx
I’ve known Mark for over 25 years very saddened to here of his passing
I remember the day when he came knocking on my door asking me to come and work for him at Technology Solutions Ltd 1999 to 2014 I’ve learnt so much from working for him and thoughly enjoyed it.
if I needed anything ( vehicle / money / Day-off / leave early ) I could always ask and he would without a problem.
always there to help others when needed
He would always go out of is way
Without marks help I wouldn’t be where I am today
Sending all family & friends deepest and heartfelt condolences
R.i.P MARK KAYLEY X
I have known Mark as a customer for over 20 years and was saddened to here of his passing. He had a great moral compass, I found him stubbornly loyal who called a spade a spade as you definitely knew where you stood with him. My thoughts go out to his family at this sad time.
I knew Mark when we stabled next door to you. He was a lovely guy with a big smile, always happy to help if asked. It was obvious just how much of a family (and dog) man he was and how much he thought of you all. Taken much too soon.
Sending my deepest and heartfelt condolences. Alison and Monica
Mark, as my big brother we have fought, cried and laughed together. Although I have not always been close by, I have always known wherever i was that you loved me and I could count on you for support. I was always so proud to say that you were my brother. Now you are gone I feel lost. I was blessed and so very lucky to have you as a brother and I will love you always and forever.
So sad you have gone Mark you will be sadly missed by many. You were always lovely to me on our family get togethers. Hope your having a pint with my Dad. We didn't see each other often but it was always lovely when we did. RIP xxx
I know how much you will be missed Mark, you touched so many lives. Your passion was infectious and I will never forget your ability to tell a great story. So funny.
My heart goes out to Julie and the family, from my family. Love Bryan x
So glad I played football against Mark, not so glad he kicked me. A lot. So glad that recently I saw Mark with my youngest son George and they got on so well. So sad this was the last time we both saw him. Just so sad. RIP Mark, gone way too son. Ian x
So sad, a fantastic man, great humor, kind and considerate a good friend over many years.
Deepest sympathy to Mark's family, colleagues and friends, devastating news.
Rest in peace mate.
Was there when you met julie all them years ago. Deepest sympathy to all your family and friends rest in peace mark. X
Mark was a great man, a great boss, a great friend and so much more. He has looked after me in so many ways for the last 18 years. He has been a massive part of my life and it will never be the same without him. He was always there for everybody.
I cannot express how deeply saddened I am by his passing and It’s true to say that work will never be the same place again but his memory will live on through everyone that met him and the words “stick us a brew on son” will stay with me forever.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends at this sad time.
Rest in peace Mark you will be truly missed. X
A wonderful person has left this world far too early. Mark was always there for everyone. It didn’t matter what time of day or night he always lifted you when you were down. His humour was amazing just like him. A daily thought, a silent tear, a constant wish that you were here. Never more than a thought away. Loved and remembered ever day
Having known Mark as an industry colleague for nearly twenty years, I am deeply saddened by his passing. He was tough, fair, good at what he did and always extremely likeable. We had some great times and some difficult times together, yet he was always loyal and ready for a laugh. You always knew where you stood with him and I respected him enormously for that. He really cared about everything he did and about everyone around him. He really was one of the good guys.
I cannot begin to imagine the loss being felt by his family and close friends and you all have my deepest and most sincere sympathy.
Goodbye Mark, rest in peace.
I only met Mark a few years ago at an Axis event but found him to be a warm hearted and very funny guy. I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his passing and will surely miss seeing him in the future. My condolences go out to his family.
Rest in peace.
I first met Mark when he joined us at Haslingden FC in the mid to late 80's . He was around 19 years old then , but quickly mixed in with an older bunch of very daft lads ! . We led him astray and made him drink far too much but we had some very happy,funny times .
His personality shone through always caring , thoughtful and interested others . No doubt these helped him in becoming successful in business
In recent times when I have seen him the same qualities were there and his love and care for his family were obvious
My thoughts and deepest sympathy go out to his family xx
I met Mark only a few times, usually at business events. He was a big guy with a big heart, instantly likeable and often prepared to put the world to rights, often into the wee small hours and, occasionally, over a dram. Rest in peace my friend.
So sorry to hear this very sad news.
Mark was our customer, and always a pleasure to deal with, i will miss our annual chat.
sincere condolences to his family.
I have no words. My heart is in a million pieces and the bottom has dropped out of our world. Our main man our Rock is no longer with us. Almost 32 years together I know nothing else but Mark myself and the kids. Mark would go above and beyond to help anyone and would travel a thousand miles if he thought he was needed. He was unique. Nothing will ever be the same again. He was everyone’s go to man and would never have a single clue how much he was loved by all those he helped. All I can say is that the kids are being amazing and have all turned into mini versions of you this past week and you would be so so proud. I know your beautiful heart will shine through them. We all Love you so deeply. Rest In Peace My Boy. Xxxx
For 10 years I’ve worked for you but I have known you practically all my life.
You have been my boss, friend and mentor throughout. You insisted on honesty and for that you defended me until the end, even if “occasionally” I was in the wrong. In the times we did have disagreements you would always make sure you put it right. You didn’t like the sales fluff and never suffered fools. With you a spade was definitely a spade! You put mine and so many others happiness at the forefront. If I needed to borrow tools, vans, money or needed an emergency day off it was no trouble if it meant it made me happier. I knew I could depend on you.
There is a huge hole in my life that will never be filled. Tecsol will never be the same again.
I want to thank you for making me the person I am today. You made your mark on me and so many others and I can only hope that now you are at peace.
Mark, we always shared good times together at the Axis events. You were great fun and I’ll keep fond memories of you forever. My heart goes out to your family. Rest peacefully.
I met Mark though business events over the last number of years. Even though I only spent a few days a year at these events I created a real bond with this great character. I Hope his family can find some peace in that he was so popular throughout the industry right up to Glasgow. He will be sorely missed and these business events will never be the same.
For the past 5 years I have had the pleasure of supporting Mark and his team as one of our customers.
I have a lot of respect for Mark and his hard no non sense approach to get the job done, while at the same time being a guy you could not help but like. His kindness and generosity was clear to see everytime we met up and he would not think twice about taking me out for dinner and buying me a drink.
Rest in peace mate, you will be missed
So sad to learn of the sad news.
I have known Mark as a customer friend for 20 years. My thoughts go to his wife and children. God Bless
In the last ten years , Mark has been the best boss imaginable to Joey and an endless support not only to him but to our family. He really has been there for us more times than I can recall and for that we will be forever grateful. He was caring and genuine and would do anything for anyone and I only wish we could have helped him in return.
I think it’s clear to see from all the messages that he really did touch the lives of so many in such a positive way. I hope that this can bring some sort of comfort for his family at this really difficult time.
Mark- you will never know how much you meant to us, and we will NEVER forget you. Good Night x
Top Bloke, mans man will be missed...….
Mark was a customer of mine but he was also someone I thought of as a friend. He was one of the most generous people I have known and not only with his wealth but his generosity of spirit.
He was gregarious and funny and always on the look out for people who need help or maybe just nudging them in the right direction.
We had a wonderful afternoon in Manchester recently with another couple of friends Ray and Hamish who are effectively competitors but Mark saw past all that and just wanted to bring people together which he did and I have attached the picture of a lifelong memory for me.
I will miss him so much and I know many of my workmates will as he was a friend to many.
Thinking of all his family in these difficult times and hope all the wonderful memories you must have of him make the coming weeks and months a little easier to bear x
I worked with Mark as part of Willow Park Housing Trust CCTV network . He was always so helpful and I was glad he was a friend and colleague. He will be sadly missed.
Mark was a great man, an inspiration, a son that will never be forgotten, the best brother and uncle ever and above all someone who wanted everyone to get along and that is why my family and me and everyone who knew him will never forget him
I have also worked with Mark for many years, through both good times and bad, however I cannot imagine the sadness and pain you all must be feeling right now. I can only hope that the love from those around you helps you through the days ahead.
Mark, rest in peace, we are all going to miss you PAL!
We are sending all our love to Marks family & friends. Heartbreaking loss of a fabulous man. Words cannot express our sadness at this horrific time. God bless Mark.
Mark has been one of my bosses for the last 17yrs and what I've learnt is that underneath the hard exterior there was a very kind and generous man who would do anything to help anyone in whatever way he could and that includes me over the years.
I will miss looking out of the window onto the car park hearing him shout and swear at someone over the phone. He has left a big hole at Tech Sol that no-one can fill.
His memory will live on every day in everyone of us.
My thoughts are with his family and friends at this time.
Goodnight Mr Kayley...rest in peace x
Mark was one of the kindest, warmest, most open and welcoming of humans I have ever come across. Throughout high school the Kayley/Howson house became like another home to me and Mark was always there at the centre of it - you could genuinely feel the love he had for not just the family, but everyone he welcomed into his home. From taking me and mil to visit haunted houses on Halloween (and scaring the life out of us), to motivational speeches at the end of a 10k run to hosting the best parties and to never (ever!) failing to buy us all drinks whenever we saw him, Mark was an absolute pleasure to be around all of the time and I’m so grateful to him for the love, the warmth and the laughter he gave to my best friend and the rest of the family for so many years. Sending so much love to everyone and thinking of you all, Kirst xxx
Words just fail about how sad myself and Peter are of the passing of our boss and friend. He was truly a wonderful soul and we are going miss him so very much.
Much love to all of his family.
See you in the not to distant future cocker and may you rest in peace xxx
Mark was a wonderful, generous and kind man. I met him only a few times and each time he was so welcoming, friendly and acted like a second father. He was an amazing dad to my best friend Millie and her siblings and I know how much he was adored. I will never forget when he took us out for tea in Newcastle - he bought us some oysters to try - which I did not enjoy!! But then we had lots of drinks and the funnest night ever. Mark also gave me some advice and cheered me up when I was a bit sad that night too. He seemed like he truly cared about everyone that he knew and I know that he will be so missed. I am happy I knew him and send all of my love to the family at this horrible time xxxxx
Mark was an amazing man. He brought so much warmth to the Kayley/Howson home and will be sorely missed. Whether we were in Haslingden or Newcastle, Mark would always go above and beyond to make sure myself and the girls were looked after, his kindness knew no bounds. I feel lucky to have known him and hope he rests in peace. Sending all my love to his family and friends at this difficult time. Emily x
For 30 years Mark was a true friend to me I have never met anyone who has come even close to the genuine thoughtfulness of others mark had deep in he’s makeup. He’s generosity to me was he’s friendship which I will remember forever. Mark was famous for helping friends and work colleagues from helping people get a mortgage to lending them a car. He’s family are FANTASTIC and my thoughts are with them xxx.